Money: A five-part conversation of accomplishment with team and team work.
Hear the song Good Vibrations while you read this article, and imagine you are Brian Wilson working with your team creating the genius, with whatever you choose, matching the frequency of the reality you want to create. Einstein said:
“Everything is energy and that’s all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.”
What I am about to share in this conversation and the next four about accomplishment with regard to money can be applicable to anyone and anything. You may embrace this conversation immediately which is great. You may not. It’s perfect wherever you are. You may get this immediately. If you don’t, know that coaching and team work is available.
Background: For me, the “way of being” around the five conversations of accomplishment was developed over a two year period of focused energy and intension with the Team Management and Leadership program with Landmark World Wide and an additional two years of training with my personal coach Fatima Peters, Founder of Emotion Management School in North America, who is a professional partner with Dr. Augusto Curry a physician from Brazil who created Emotional Management and has sold tens of millions of books on the practice of Emotional Management. My training with Emotion Management and Team Management and Leadership is ongoing.
The five separate and distinct conversations of accomplishment, in no particular order, are:
Relatedness (The Focus of this Blog)
Possibility
Opportunity
Action
Completion
While these conversations can take place in any order, all five must occur and be maintained until completion of the desired outcome to assure accomplishment. These conversations take place with a team that you assemble.
We are going to start with a relatedness conversation as it pertains to money. We can have a relatedness conversation about anything. This conversation just happens to be about money.
Conversation, as part of the five conversations of accomplishment, come from what is called the “new model” with a “way of being” that you choose such as generosity, love, forgiveness, and understanding. These are just a few. You choose without any condition. You choose by choosing to “be present” as opposed to entering a conversation with a “point of view,” which is, rooted in the past.
Neither model “old” or “new” is better or worse. They just are. Recognizing which model of conversation you and the other(s) is in allows communication to occur in the present. It comes from an everything/nothing way of being which we have referred to in Blogs 1 and 2 and illustrated.
The Good Vibrations music video above is an accurate fun metaphor in that relatedness is fun and vibrates a common energy between two people or a group which allows them to create whatever they choose. A relatedness conversation replicates what Einstein said about energy. “Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality.” Wouldn’t matching that frequency be more powerful with a team of people as opposed to by yourself?
This is why we discussed the 99.99999% of the atom which is nothing and 1/100,000 % of the atom that is both probability (nothing) and a solid particle moment by moment depending on the observer. This “observer effect” is what we choose as a “way of being” when we enter a conversation. It is everything and nothing as we dance in conversation like the twinkling of a star.
It’s also referred to as “living in possibility” and being with the “what’s so.” Part of the “what’s so” is that most of us and the universe is 99.99999% nothing. Why not be with it? The energy that is us is potentially anything. The other 1/100,000 % is probability one moment and a particle the next based on what we observe.
This is why I chose the animated Quantum Wave Function video in the blog titled What is money? It is “no thing” materially but all things potentially. Fast forward 10:14 into it, and watch the last minute. The movement of the electron illustrates scientifically that “Love is in the air” like the attached song says in Mr. and Ms. Know It All is born blog. Infinite Intelligence, the love that cared for everything down to the subatomic particle, is in you to the smallest building block.
The aforementioned “new model” varies from the “old model” of explaining, convincing, and describing in that one chooses to be present, absent of a past point of view, and enters a conversation newly as if they know nothing, living in possibility, because they are perfect whole and complete in the present. Since they are living into a future already fulfilled, there is no room for anything but being present.
It’s the difference of “being conversation,” in the new model, as opposed to having conversation in the old model. Again neither is better. It’s just a matter of recognition in order to “be present” with the “what’s so” for one another. It’s why it’s jokingly referred to as a love conversation.
The “what’s so” is not the truth which is a preconceived point of view rooted in the past. It doesn’t mean you have to buy into something you don’t believe. It is recognizing when you, the other, or both of you are observing something from a point of view (in the old model) as opposed to being present (in the new model.) It is a commitment to understanding, generosity, or whatever “way of being” is chosen by an individual in order to be present with another person or group.
Now that the stage is set, here is an example in terms of a relatedness conversation about money in the “old model.”
In the “old model” with which you are probably very much familiar. This blog would be about me convincing you about why income protection is the foundation of your financial house. I, with the most honorable intension, would explain mathematically that, if you don’t already have 10 times your annual income saved, you would need low-cost term insurance to replace your income if you were to prematurely die and you had dependents (a spouse, children or possibly dependent elderly parents) who needed your lost income to maintain their current life style.
I would ask you questions that would lead you down a path that would be mathematically appropriate and good for you. In the “old model,” even though my intentions are only to provide what you can afford and mathematically need, my “way of being” would be to ask absent of the “new model” of understanding, generosity or “being over there with you” with my listening. I would be having a conversation. I would not be conversation. Being conversation versus having a conversation is the “new model.” The over there with you, knowing nothing, listening newly is the “new model.”
In the “old model,” I would hear with a “point of view” of past conversations with other clients and non-clients. I would hear with an outcome in mind and basically be in conversation with myself masquerading a conversation with you.
I would already be in an internal, “point of view conversation,” rooted in the past of what I was going to say next rather than being present, dancing in the conversation, over there with you, or being conversation. Completing the sale and recruiting you into working with me would be in my listening. All mutually good things and absent of being in the moment and being present.
So now that we can see, hear, and feel what conversation isn’t in the old model. Let’s be conversation. Let’s be a relatedness conversation about money, and see, hear, and feel what it’s like with the new model.
I am entering this conversation being generous listening. I am genuinely interested where you are being present with the “what’s so” of money. Be honest with yourself.
Q1: Hi. Tell me a little about yourself? Who is significant to you? What is your passion? What do you do for fun? Are you pursuing you passion? Do you love what you do?
(I’m getting over there with you)
Q2: When I say money, what do see, what do you think, what do you feel? What if anything comes up for you?
Q3: Wherever you are with it, can you be with it? Can you own it as being cause in the matter not as success or failure, but as you did the best with whatever experience you had?
Yes? Great. (Go to Q4)
No? Are you open to further conversation about it? No? Do you mind me asking when it would be a good time to continue this conversation?
Yes? What comes up for you? Anything else? Keep asking yourself what comes up until nothing else comes up.
Q4: Now that we are clear with wherever you are with money, what are you goals and dreams?
Great
Q5: Are there any goals and dreams that are important to you, that you thought you would have attained by now, that require money? No? Are there charities to which you would like to contribute more?
Yes? How do you think and feel about them? Anything else? Keep asking yourself what comes up until nothing else comes up.
Q6: How much money do you think it will cost to reach you goals and dreams?
What comes up for you if anything? Anything else? Keep asking yourself what comes up until nothing else comes up.
Q7: Are you currently earning enough money to reach you goals and dreams in a time frame that works for you?
Yes? Do you keep your options open to earning more money, so you can do it quicker while you continue doing what you are doing?
No? Do you keep your options open to earning more money while you continue doing what you are doing?
Q8: If you don’t mind sharing, what’s your plan regarding Q6 and Q7?
Yes? Great
No? OK
Q9: Is there anything else that comes up in your relatedness to money that you would like to share?
Thank you for sharing
Q10: Honoring where you are with your relatedness to money, are you open to have another conversation about what’s possible when it comes to money?
Yes? Great. Let’s be in conversation about this relatedness conversation and whatever part of the conversation of accomplishment that you want to have next: Possibility, Opportunity, Action, or Completion. Go to the Contact Me section of my website and call or message me.
No? Do you mind me asking what comes up for you? Anything else? Keep asking yourself what comes up until nothing else comes up.
Go to the Contact Me section of my website and call or message me of you would like to talk personally
Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for reading.
Other than not being able to ask me questions, do you see, hear, and feel the difference of being conversation in the “new model” versus having conversation in the “old model?”
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In the new model,
Team and Teamwork
Living into the future fulfilled as a way of being
Structured communication curriculum
A way of being through thought and emotion with the ability to give up point of view at any moment in order to dance in the conversation like the electron particle that exists as a wave of probability in one moment, in the next moment appears as a solid particle, disappears into nothing and reappears at a another location
As a matter of the “what’s so” absent of the truth
Being present
Emotion management
Accomplishment
Ongoing managed conversation involving communication as a way of being
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Anthony Timet